Affirmations for burnout
For when you're running on empty and still adding to the list. These are mostly about rest, limits and noticing that what you did today was enough.
27 affirmations: 9 thoughts, each in a gentle, steady and bold version. Updated
What are good affirmations for burnout?
Good affirmations for burnout are short and believable, for example "It's safe for me to rest", "One thing at a time is enough", and "I did enough today". Say two or three of them out loud, five to ten times each, once a day. If a bold wording feels false, start with the gentle version.
Which version should you say?
Start here if kind words about yourself feel hard to believe.
Plain statements for when the gentle ones already feel true.
For when you believe it and want to say it like you mean it.
- I'm allowed to rest
- One small thing is still something
- What I did today counts
- It's okay to ask for help
- My energy comes back when I rest
- I'm learning to listen to my body
- What I do matters to someone
- I can thank myself for trying
- I'm allowed to say no
- It's safe for me to rest
- One thing at a time is enough
- I did enough today
- I ask for what I need
- I have energy for what matters
- I listen to what my body needs
- My work matters
- I thank myself for showing up
- I say no kindly, and I mean it
- Rest makes me stronger
- I do what matters, calmly
- I'm proud of the work I do
- I deserve the help I ask for
- I wake up with energy for my day
- My body and I are on the same side
- I make a difference
- I'm grateful for who I am
- My no is as clear as my yes
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Why these are worded this way
Burnout isn't fixed by thinking positively about more work. So the words here are about rest and limits, like "I'm allowed to rest" and "I did enough today". If you feel exhausted for weeks, it's worth talking to a doctor too.
How to practise them
- Choose two or three from the list above. Fewer is better than many said half-heartedly.
- Say each one out loud, slowly, five to ten times. Hearing your own voice is part of it.
- Do it at the same time each day, like after brushing your teeth or on your walk to work.
- When a sentence starts to feel natural, switch to its stronger version.
Read more: How Many Times Should You Repeat Affirmations a Day?, Do Affirmations Work? An Honest Look at the Research
Questions
How do I use these affirmations?
Pick two or three that feel true, or nearly true. Say each one out loud five to ten times, slowly, once a day. Morning works well because it sets the tone, but any regular time is fine. Start with the gentle wording if the bold one feels like a lie.
Why are there three versions of each affirmation?
A statement you don't believe can make you feel worse, especially when your self-esteem is low. The gentle version is believable on a hard day, the steady one is a plain statement, and the bold one is for when you're ready. Move up when the current one feels natural.
Is it better to say affirmations out loud?
Saying words out loud helps you remember them better than reading them silently, an effect psychologists call the production effect. It also keeps your attention on the words instead of drifting.
How long until affirmations work?
There's no fixed number of days. Habit research found that a daily behaviour took a median of 66 days to feel automatic. Most people notice the words feel more natural after a few weeks of daily practice.
Let your phone keep count
Mantrify is an iPhone app that reads each affirmation to you, listens while you say it and counts every repetition, so you can practise with your eyes closed. Coming soon.